We all have been talking recently about the parents role in responding to the addict. If you’re interested in reading the view of a recovering addict, please go here: http://lifeofadrugaddict.blogspot.com/2011/03/if-my-parents-raised-me-differently.html?showComment=1300733679558#c8955509583516753815
Read the whole thing. Because if you stop halfway you might be tempted, like was, to think, “hey – this wasn’t all my fault!” He covers that in the end. It’s helpful reading. Especially if you’re wondering whether or not to boot that addict out the door…
One Mom Talking: The ongoing story of one mom, three teens, and heroin. 
Kay, thanks for this post and reference to Ross’ blog. I’ve added it to my own blog roll. I need to catch up with you and your world. Hope you’re hang’in in there. You were my very first blog friend and cheerleader – and I will never forget that. Peggy